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| How to Reach Them | Archives Thank you for stopping by to check on Joann. Jim left the page from 9-10-98 sitting here for a long time, and only this week has he returned to freshen the page. Joann is thinking that maybe it's time for her to take over as managing editor. That decision could come at any time. |
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October 28, 1998
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October 27, 1998 The side effects of chemotherapy have been hard this cycle. On the night before her first chemotherapy on July 1, Joann told Jim, "I'll be starting the first leg of a long and tortuous journey." Her anticipation of the journey has proven true. If you get a chance, send Joann a card to let her know you're still rooting for her. Prayers and positive thoughts continue to be appropriate. |
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October 26, 1998 Marie Shaughnessy visited over the weekend! Obviously, one very happy Grandma. She hasn't seen Larissa since the Albany NICU, and Larissa has grown a lot since then. Grandma and Larissa got to be real good buddies.
The nursery is coming along quite nicely. Larissa is still using the bassinet close to the door, but the fixtures and furnitures are in place for her as she gets bigger. The moons were made by Aunt Rosmarie, and the angel looking over her crib is from Uncle Ron. Larissa had her three-month birthday on Saturday, and weighed in at over 8 pounds. This is more than 3-times her birth weight of 2 lb 10 oz. Maybe there really is a guardian angel looking over Larissa!
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October 20, 1998 We also had a birthday party to attend on Saturday. Sister-in-law Rosmarie Shaughnessy is hitting the big Five-Zero this year. Her actual birthday is the 28th, so that's when the official greeting will appear. On Sunday afternoon, sister Ginny visited with her husband Ben Bishop. They have just settled into a new house in South Glastonbury, CT. We hope thay have many years of happiness in it. Thanks for visiting. Sunday night was B.B. King at UPAC. It was great. On Monday, Cousin Barbara Couch visited from Fairfield, CT. Joann was a very little girl when Barbara was getting married, and this was a nice get-acquainted visit. Joann has a lot of energy. |
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October 16, 1998 Joann is pleased that she has been following a treatment plan confirmed by Sloan-Kettering, and that she is not overlooking a therapy available elsewhere. Joann and Jim visited Jim and Judy Barba. Jim is covering from prostate cancer surgery. They both looked good. Jim is still not on solid food. He may be home by Saturday. |
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October 14, 1998 We will also get to visit briefly with Jim and Judy Barba. |
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October 13, 1998 Larissa is going to get to air-dry for a few hours every day until her diaper rash clears up. Daddy promises not to publish any photographs of her in that position -- he wants his daughter to speak to him when he's a dottering old fool and she's a sophisticated young lady. Speaking of photos, the one at left is Larissa in her Parisian outfit, a gift from cousin Clara Roman Valussi, who is 10 months old and lives in Paris, France. Chic, eh? Jim Barba called last evening. He remains on IV and hopes to have water today. His colon is still not functioning, but he feels well enough to be amused that family and friends are eagerly awaiting his next fart. Check back for the latest news, unless you hear it first. Dr. Marla had a baby girl, Sophie Leila, on Friday morning, and Carrie Sticklin had a baby girl, Lauren Catherine, on Saturday. Moms and babies are all home and doing well. Congratulations. Larissa is looking forward to meeting Sophie and Lauren. |
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October 12, 1998 Larissa went to the doctor's on Friday. She weighed 6 lbs, 11 oz. on their scale. She is getting to be a big girl! She had two immunizations. She didn't have a bad reaction, but did develop a diaper rash over the weekend. We took her back to the doctor this afternoon, because this is our first experience with diaper rash. Jim Barba has had a setback in his recovery from surgery for prostate removal. He digestive system is still shut down, and he is on IV nourishment. Hopefully, tests today will identify the source of the problem. Today is Judy and Jim's anniversary, and yesterday was Jim's birthday. Happy Anniversary, Judy and Jim. Happy Birthday, Jim. We know the hospital is not the best place to celebrate such a day, but we know and pray that you'll have many more opportunities to celebrate these special days together. |
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October 8, 1998 "Larissa" is a Russian name which means "cheerful one." This photo was taken when she left Benedictine Hospital to come home on September 6. We call it the "Czarina" photo. Joann is doing well. Her blood counts yesterday was at good levels, and we will continue with Neupogen injections to stimulate her white blood cells. Her spirits remain high, and as you can see from above, she is proving to be a wonderful Mommy -- I think to no-one's surprise. Jim Barba is recovering well from his prostate surgery on Tuesday at Sloan-Kettering Hospital in NYC. He sat up for several hours yesterday and made 4 walks around the ward. He expects to be released and home on Saturday. If you have the opportunity, tell Judy to make sure she has a good breakfast, and keep them both in your prayers. |
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October 7, 1998 Jim's wife is Judy Ives Barba, Joann's oldest sister. Judy and Jim have been tremendously helpful during Joann's illness and the events of the summer. It doesn't seem fair that they should have prostate cancer to deal with so immediately. They will be in our thoughts and prayers. |
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October 6, 1998 Jim missed several birthdays during his publication hiatus. One of them was Wendy Schollenberger's on September 26. She has super-editorial control over this web site, so no mention can be made of her age. She did register to vote in Ulster County, recently. Anyway, a belated Happy Birthday, Wendy. She has done a great job keeping the ISWIS office functioning since June. |
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October 4, 1998 On September 24, Joann had a CT scan of the chest to see the effect of the chemotherapy. Dr. Grund called on Friday afternoon to say that the scan show shrinkage of the tumor -- areas of areation in the upper lobe of the right lung where there was none before, reduction of 30% in some other areas of the right lung, and less pressure on the heart and left lung. Joann was very pleased to hear this, and it confirms with scientific evidence the way that she feels. Jim and Linda Cravens and Bob, Susan, and Ryan Starbuck visited on Saturday, September 26. We took them to the Garlic Festival in Saugerties -- Joann and Jim had a good time there last year. We agreed to meet at 5:00 at the bandstand in the center of the garlic ring. Joann, Jim and Larissa arrived early and fed Larissa. As a band started to play, Jim noticed tears welling in Joann's eyes. "It's good to be here", he said. "Yes, it is", Joann replied. Jim thinks those were the most genuine tears of joy he has ever seen. Larissa has been home four weeks today. Her original due date is October 8. We expect that she will weigh over 6-1/2 lbs then. She is on a 3 hour feeding schedule and eats approximately 16 oz. of formula a day. She gains approximately 1 oz. per day. She sometimes get the hiccups, one occasion was documented by Lowell Thing. Larissa is a very cheerful baby, and she travels well. We have taken her shopping several times, and she mostly sleeps. She went to Albany with us on the 24th for Joann's CT scans. We stopped in to see Dr. Grund, the nurses in the NICU and on D6N, and Dr. Eglowstein. Jim is going to experiment with a new format for this page. There will be a short news item every day or two, which will accumulate for a week. New links and photos will be added as they become available. |
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Jim asks that you continue your prayers and
positive thoughts. |
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